A sincere and eloquent note of thanks will be remembered forever. Whether you’re thanking your Hamptons hostess for a wonderful weekend, or your wedding guests, thank-you notes allow us to acknowledge deeds large and small, in a thoughtful and considered way. KDHamptons checks in with Lauren Marrus, Dempsey & Carroll’s CEO, for her top tips on how to master the art of the thank-you note.

Dempsey & Carroll’s history, dedication to craft, exacting standards, meticulous attention to detail, and manufacturing in the United States, have distinguished its business for over 135 years and continue to set it apart as one of the finest purveyor of engraved social papers. By using hand-engraved steel dies and the most luxurious papers, Dempsey & Carroll creates a rich experience for both the giver and receiver of personal correspondence.

1.      Set aside adequate time to think about what you’re going to say and how you’re going to say it.  If your note is rushed, it may come off as perfunctory or insincere.

2.     Make sure your handwriting is as good as it can be.  Warm up by drawing loops on scratch paper or by writing a draft of your note.  If your handwriting is difficult to read, it’s fine to print.

3.      Make a list of the things you want to mention or include.  Thank them for the gift, what you most liked about it. Was there an anecdote or funny story you want to reference? Adding in details from the ceremony or reception are a great way to personalize each note.

4.      Express your gratitude in heartfelt words.  Good thank-you notes make the recipient feel special when it is clear you mean all those nice things you write.

5.      If possible, avoid leading with “Thank you for…” – your note will sound fresher and less formulaic if you start off with anything else.  Try “You caught the bouquet!” or “This piece will look fantastic in the dining room.”

6.      Finish with a strong line, such as “I really appreciate your celebrating with us” or “We hope to see you and Ted again very soon.”